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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm confused as to which scenario we're talking about - an emotional response to poor treatment or a naturally low libido.

The first post talks about a woman's emotionally healthy response to poor treatment by her husband. Then at 13:33, the conversation shifts to a presumption that women often just naturally have a lower libido.

It seems to me that the obligations of one spouse to another are different in those scenarios. If a woman doesn't want to have sex with her husband because he's treating her poorly, I don't think she has an obligation to seek to bridge the libido gap or compromise unless or until he treats her properly.

If a woman doesn't want to have sex with her husband even though he's a good partner who treats her well, that's a situation where she should be looking for ways to be part of a compromise. She shouldn't have sex with him if she doesn't want to; but she should be open to making efforts to feel desire more frequently (e.g. take long baths, read erotica, counseling whatever) or opening up the marriage so he can have sex with others. [/quote]

Well I guess the op has sex when she is being treated poorly. It breaks all the cultural sterotypes. Let's faces it, the joke is when a couple fights it is the man who sleeps on the couch- i.e. The couple is not having sex. 
As for 13:33...she or he is really messed up. I think there are some deep seated issues and I hope she/he is not marriage. Things are just not that black and white. If either person in a marriage cares so little about the other(or hates the other), why are you continuing in a relationship?
Some of these problems are cultural and not it the way you think. As a guy, I have turned down women who wanted to have sex(I am picky). It can get pretty ugly. At least a guy is culturally and socially excepted to be rejected. This is not true for women. [/quote]

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