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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my opinion It really depends on where the money is coming from. My wife doesn't work so if she ever did purchase a gift for me it would be from money that I myself earned and therefore I don't really see the item itself as a gift. Rather, on the few time in our marriage that she has actually purchased a gift for me, the more important aspect of the "gift" was the though or rather lack of thought she put into the "gift." The reason for this is that the because the money is from my earnings the only part of herself she put into the gift was her consideration for what I might need or want. In our case only once did she put any effort into the gift. It was the effort that made the gift special. Not the cost. And frankly the more expensive the gift when spending someone else's earning shows a profound lack of consideration for that other person.[/quote]

This is asshattery.  Your wife works to enable you to work the way you do.  In the absence of her work, you would need to hire people to do what she does, and divert your focus from your work in order to put it on your kids and household.

You both earn your salary.

If I knew your wife, I would tell her to go back to work, so that she is not dependent on you.  [b]And so that you get a clue[/b].[/quote]

Funny. I think if his wife went to work then SHE would be the one getting the clue. After my ex divorced me she went back to work. At first she was supper excited but after about a year she got (and continues to be) depressed about working. When I speak to her she always complains about how all she does is work and doesn't have time for anything and how the kids are ungrateful for all the work she does. I'm quiet and do not point out how I have felt the same way during my whole working life but just sucked it up because gender roles in our society don't allow for me to stay home and not work.[/quote]

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