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[quote=Anonymous]People argue because the people they argue with engage with them. If you stop engaging, there is no argument.

Make decisions for small (and even many large) things on your own. Do what makes YOU happy. For most things, you really don't need his input.

If you need his input on something, don't even mention what your opinion is first. For example, if the issue is your child's pants (although you really don't need his opinion on that), just say "DC needs new pants. Could you please look into some options and tell me what you think we should get/order the pants you think we need?" If it's something a little more important, like, I dunno, travel plans, same thing. Ask him for his opinion first, or if it's something you don't really care about, just tell him to go ahead and make whatever plans he thinks is best.

Meanwhile, work on making yourself happy. Something about seeing their wife all of a sudden dressing up, going out, doing things they enjoy, and being around less makes men sit up and take notice. [/quote]

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