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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It could affect his clearance if you didn't know about it. But you know about it, so most likely not.

But another question is this: is it really in your interest to have him lost his clearance and his job and most likely lose his ability to get re-hired? How will he pay alimony and child support in that case?[/quote]

On the latter -- I assume that's the concern, right? She probably doesn't want him to get fired. [/quote]

No, I think the opposite. She is thinking she can use this to get his clearance pulled. Understandably, she's angry and looking to hurt him back, but this will only boomerang on her poorly if she goes that route. If he has no job, she has no child support/alimony/payout. [/quote]

That's not understandable at all. What a strange way to think. [/quote]

You don't think it's understandable that she wants him to hurt like she is? I'm not saying wanting to get his clearance taken is understandable, just the urge to make him hurt for hurting her is.

And to the PPS who think this thread is a Rohrsach test into someone's entire outlook on life... It's not. If you know anything about security clearances you would know that once you have one, you have it, and there isn't like, ongoing monitoring to make sure you stay on the straight and narrow. If she's asking could he lose it if they knew, that implies she is thinking about letting someone know. They're simply not going to dig it up or become aware of it any other way. [/quote]

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