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[quote=Anonymous]I am one of the poster's whose wife, suddenly, had a big spike in libido.  I was once one of those men on these boards losing my mind over the libido gap.  Couple of thoughts here:

1) HUGE red flag OP, that your wife has a libido, just not for you.  Most women, with small children, lose their libidos for everyone.  Sure, they can get stirred up a bit for someone novel, but the common chorus is they want to be left alone at the end of the day.

2) Your kids are young, your situation is normal, few men are getting much sex when toddlers are around.  But see #1.

3) I think its generally good advice to be helpful around the house and attentive so that eliminates one possibility, resentment.  That isn't your problem, so try the other route, be less available, less attentive, more of a prick and stoke her jealousy.  That worked for me, somewhat.  But not as much as the fact my wife has a new, handsome male friend and she is jumping my bones at an alarming frequency.  I will take it.

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