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[quote=Anonymous]Yes. An emotional affair became a real one after DH was exposed. But I realized I wasn't ready to divorce for several reasons, financially, two young children, not sure if I was making a mistake, wanting to see if DH was really committed to changing. The affair fizzled, was fun while it lasted and therapeutic, flirting, loving someone else, seeing a different pathway. When it ended it was okay. Still felt attracted to other men. It's been 3 years and the marriage is finally getting back on track and I'm happy to be here. 3 months is nothing, don't feel strange about the array of mixed emotions you feel. You are just getting started! And yes, sex immediately after finding out, then feeling completely turned off for a long time. I was transparent about doubting the marriage, we just had to go through that. We are in a good place now, but the relationship dynamic has completely changed, in a good way. He does more, is tuned in, I'm more independent, have developed my career,  make good  money, work to love myself, forgive my faults, and know if I had to go it alone I'd be okay. [/quote]

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