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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're to easily engaged.  Sill will bait you and you'll fall for it. [/quote]

I haven't for the past 4 months. [/quote]
That's bc your approach has been all or nothing. [/quote]

No, I've seen her. I've talked with her. I've just left everything that SHOULD be addressed by DH be addressed by DH. It's really made a difference.[/quote]

Ok that's good[/quote]

I feel like if we're going to let bygones by bygones and stuck with each other, it wouldn't hurt to have a relationship with her.[/quote]

But you also have to remember that she hasnt ch

anged. She's who she is and is likely going to continue to lie and create drama. You can't change her. And you should not use her behavior as an excuse for your own poor behavior. Know who she is and hope that the drama comes from insecurity and immaturity, not maliciousness. Try to keep things light. I recommend meeting up to do something rather than sitting around staring at each other across a table. Build shared memories and have an activity that will distract and focus the attention away from potential issues.[/quote]

It's great she apologized.

Good idea. I think im over anxious because this is the first she's ever apologized to me. Ever.[/quote][/quote]

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