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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex SIL is having a baby and I was sent an invitation for the shower. I've pretty much have avoided my ex's family since our divorce. My ex had an affair and ended up marrying his AP. I don't have any issues with his sister or anyone else in the family, but I do try to avoid my ex and his wife. Should I attend the shower or just mail a gift?[/quote] Were you invited solo or was it for you and your daughter? She may want the niece there and felt she had to invite you as well (since you say you haven't had a close relationship since the divorce). I would see about having the stepmother or grandmother bringing your daughter if she was invited with gift from the two of you.[/quote] The invitation was sent to both of us.[/quote] Send your daughter with a gift from you both. It's a courtesy invite, so good to model good manners to your daughter but no need to go.[/quote]
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