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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't see anything in your post about DH wanting a baby. He has to be on board as well. Also consider you will be in your 50s parenting a teenager. In the short term do you want to be dealing with teaching a teen to drive and getting into college on top of caring for a newborn and toddler? This is just your hormones and fear of change ( your child getting older) Tell them to shut up. Ugh- So what? You don't think people in their 50s can deal with teenagers? How about Barack and Michelle or just about all of my friends. I would challenge whoever you are in an energy contest any day of the week. Such stupid ageism. I had two babies in my 30s and the last when I was 41; not as large an age gap as OP but there is nothing wrong with it as long as OP feels positive about the decision. There are lots and lots of women who have babies in their 40s with no issues! In fact, I was just telling some friends last night that my pregnancy at 40 was my best. I was in great shape throughout. I know this is individual but I hate when people come on with doom and gloom about what life is like in your 40s and 50s. [/quote]
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