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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I married very young right out of college. Now we are in our 40s and are completely different people. We are basically roommates with two elementary aged children. We don't fight, no abuse and no affairs. We used to try to occasionally have sex but the desire isn't really there for either of us anymore. We have had separate bedrooms for at least 6 years. We do a great job co-parenting. Sometimes we argue but it isn't too bad since there isn't many times we do things as an entire family.

So now what? Do we divorce when they go to college?  I don't even consider him a close friend. We talk about it sometimes and it would distroy our kids. Neither of us want them to have to go from house to house and ours isn't bad or unstable. We even take family vacations and get two rooms.  Is there anyone else going through this?  I would like an actual parter for me but will put my kids first and don't want to be selfish. I won't have an affair if I'm still married. Honestly, I don't even care if he is. [/quote]

This is your life OP. Some have worse, some have better, and its all of course, relative. Just get on with it. See how it pans out. Do you really need to make any decisions now? Probably not.[/quote]

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