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[quote=Anonymous]Is your sister saying these things?  How she doesn't want to end up like you?  Who has been putting you down your whole life?  Where is this low or lack of self esteem coming from? Are you comparing or is she bringing it up and your parents?  Who says her in laws are great? Maybe they are nightmares and she is good at hiding or pretending.  Is she already making a lot of money or talking about it? I am an older sibling and I am "less" achieving than my younger sister. She is a surgeon, I am a teacher, she is very pretty, I am ok.  All that was ever dumped on me was done by my mother, who cherishes my younger sister, but luckily sister and I get along great since we realize that our mom is extremely messed up. Even the fact that I have kids and sister doesn't, became a negative for me to my mom, no joke.  Even when sister couldn't have kids that became my fault because I should have given her(sister) a child. This is no joke. Even the fact that I am thinner and sister is now heavier is a negative for me since middle aged women are ugly if skinny. But I am overcoming it all, I am not letting her ruin my life any more, and that is what you need to stop doing, you are letting this issue rule your life. It is your life, not theirs.  So, is it your sister who is bringing you down, or a parent? Now, it is you thinking about it, but early on, somebody else started this and caused you to have no confidence.  As for how to cope with it, life's short, stop obsessing over "grass is greener" and enjoy your own life.[/quote]

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