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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't have specific suggestions for you, but I want to encourage you to be "kinder" to yourself. For every high achieving older sibling, there is one who was the repository of everything that was dysfunctional about their parents and their needs/inexperience, etc. while the younger siblings escaped having to hold the bag for the parents disappointments with their own lives. I'm not wording this very artfully but I hope you get my point. [b]Though you were raised together, your sister's experience is not yours. Her success doesn't make you a failure. Life is long. Run your own race. Hang in.[/b] [/quote] I think this was beautifully said and I agree 100%! You are not a failure, OP. Your journey is just different. [/quote]
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