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Reply to "Men: What was your reaction when your wife said she wanted to SAHM?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't say I'd react well, but I also don't make nearly what your husband does (six figures, but not close to his numbers). However, I was pretty upfront that I was not the sort of husband who wanted to be a sole support to my wife, that I wanted a two income household, etc. I'd be pretty annoyed if my wife decided she didn't want to work anymore, [b]without any really good reason,[/b] which I haven't seen you give.[/quote] [b]I want to spend time with my child?[/b] That's not a good enough reason? I've been going through the motions of comparing a nanny vs. daycare (we have our name down for a couple) and I just really feel like I want to do this stuff myself. I want to do the mommy and me classes and take her to the park, etc. I want to spend long afternoons at the splash pad. I don't want to hire someone else to have all the fun with MY daughter when I could do it myself.[/quote] Yes you are the only important parent in that household. What if the father had the same responses. He wants to do Daddy and me classes.[/quote] My DH had taken plenty of classes with our kids. Evenings and weekends. [/quote]
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