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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he has nothing in writing then he has nothing. Advise him that you will be contacting the appropriate law enforcement if he persists. I'll bet that he was the one leeching off your mom while she was alive.[/quote]

Yes this, with one revision: Just tell him next time he calls you that you are ALREADY contacting law enforcement and starting to record his calls.  If you can actually record them, do.  Me, I'd tell him I was recording them even if I wasn't, just to get him off my back.  And if he emails, I'd just thank him for providing further evidence of his harassment for something that is NOT your problem or your obligation.

And also tell him that contact with your grandmother is included in the legal actions you're taking, so if he keeps contacting her, it counts against him if you take him to court.

Lastly, I'd send him an email detailing all you've done to be clear with him that he should get a lawyer and deal with the estate, but he insists on harassing you and your grandmother and has not stopped calling.  Good to have written proof of the history of convos and patience and attempts to be reasonable you have engaged in, and to be able to show he has it too.

I really would guess that after all that he'd leave you alone.  But if he doesn't, use the protective order that you definitely should be filing for.[/quote]

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