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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If we're still talking specifically about the low libido thread, that guy and his wife agreed to schedule duty sex once a week. That was fine for a while but now he wants her to be "into" it. Guess what he has to do to make that happen. She's fine with the duty sex, if he wants higher quality, he'll need to go the extra lengths. Look it's up to him. Do the work or not, I don't care. It's not my marriage. But don't delude yourself into thinking it's all your wife's fault either. She is willing to make an effort, you have to meet her halfway.[/quote]

What I got from that thread is that he wants her distaste to be less palpable, which I can only see as reasonable. Nowhere has anyone suggested anything is the wife's "fault". But pretending that starfish sex should ever be acceptable is just too much of a stretch.

I'm pretty sure men would like variety in their partners too, but apparently there are actually men who value their marriage vows and want to honor them without having to pretend their libido no longer exists.[/quote]

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