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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]ok OP, so you have a low drive.  no biggie.  but some of us have a high drive and also have a spouse with a high drive. is it always 4th of July fireworks every time we have sex, no.  but I'm lucky my DH is a great lover and takes care of my needs first.  so that is just one of many reasons I want to have sex multiple times a week with him - and he's a pretty happy guy.

and we have 3 kids (teens/pre-teens) and both work full-time.[/quote]

lol sure

Look I can't answer for the OP but I'm pretty sure she is not talking about "low drive" in general. She's talking specifically about low drive within the context of long term monogamy, which is a very different kettle of fish. That guy's wife? The one who has been married for 16 years? What do you want to bet that she *does* get turned on by men she sees randomly in the streets? Young, good looking boys. NEW guys. It's not just men who want new and strange. She might not want to have sex with the dude she's been married to for 16 years but that doesn't make her asexual. For the life of me, I do not understand why men cannot seem to grasp this simple concept.

WFT to the "starfish" issue, I don't know why these women can't cook up a good fantasy in their heads. That's what I do and it works.[/quote]

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