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[quote=Anonymous]I had a medical issue a few years ago and the neurologist turned to my H and said.

1. She needs to sleep 8 hours a night.
2. You need to cook dinner and do homework with the kids.
3. She needs to go for a walk every evening.

Come back in 2 months and let me know how it is going.

My H said, "I need to do that for 2 months?"

Neurologist, "She has been doing it for 13 years, can you do it for 2 months."

So my H did, and magically my neurological issues cleared up. My neurologist said that he sees multiple 40+ yo women with major medical issues, due to lack of sleep and simply doing too much. (I never thought I was doing too much, I actually enjoy keeping busy.)

After the 2 months, things went back to normal, I started having health problems again.

Long story short, my H now realizes 2 years after that experience that being fully engaged is more important than anything else.

I hope it does not take a health crisis to come to the conclusion for you and your H.

You will not "connect" over a 4 day vacation. It's silly to even think that will reboot your relationship.

What is crazy is my H feels more "connected" now that he is fully engaged in the family.
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