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[quote=Anonymous]Get a house cleaner. Get a baby sitter. Go on a date with your DH. Kiss him, hug him, hold hands.  You have to initiate some physical affection and you have to give him verbal strokes.  My DH and I had the same problem and I realized that I was a difficult wife to live with for him.

It was not sexual dysfunction.  When a man feels that his wife is always finding faults with everything he cannot get it on.   I changed, and then he changed gradually.  I had to reach him emotionally before he became physically interested in me again. Sexually, it was important for my DH that I wanted him and liked doing certain  sexual acts with him.   It took a long time for him to reach a good place.

Frankly, a lot of his issues of not being very responsible around the house has not changed, but I learned to live with them and have outsourced all that I can.  I felt that  I could have used that money on couples therapy or on the household staff.  I chose household staff.  This works because he makes decent money, I have the energy and time to oversee things and he comes through for me for all other things.

Obviously, my solution will not be palatable to many women, so I am not advocating it for others.  It worked for me.[/quote]

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