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[quote=Anonymous]Woman here: in my last marriage I did not have sex for 2 years. the four years of marriage before that I was always the one to initiate, and someone's would get turned down. I waited to see how long my DH could go without sex and it was seemingly indefinite.

I am happily remarried now and having sex 4-10 times a week.

Seriously, looking back I don't know how I went that long. Your situation sounds similar to mine as we also met while in grad school, also both worked FT, also had two young kids...... BUT I think in my case my DH was closet gay.... I think once he had the family he wanted he just stopped having sex after our second child and pretending to want it. I think that he maybe wasn't self-aware of his orientation. I think there are many men out there in DC who are like this and have straight marriages if they care about having a traditional "perfect" family, care more about image than reality, and desire to be accepted by church and family.

Op I am sorry but sexless marriage is no way to live. I was also in my mid 30s, 120 lbs and tall with curves and also got appreciative looks as you put it so delicately, and would also lie naked in bed next tons partner who would simply.... Fall asleep.[/quote]

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