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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here is my thought - but take this with a grain of salt since I am a high libido male in a sex starved marriage with a low libido wife:

Did you have a long dry spell when the kids were little, where he used to try and initiate and you rejected him?  Because that happened for years in my marriage.  Well past the age when the kids were babies.  I kind of gave up on seeing my wife as a sexual person, even though she is beautiful.  I take care of myself about a dozen times a week and have been doing so for the past 10 years since this all started when the first was born.

Fast forward, my wife seems to have regained a glimmer of her sexuality back.  My sense is she would enjoy sex a couple times a month if the mood was right.  So she might do what you did and be a bit flirty, but the problem is 1) I may have recently taken care of myself - how was I supposed to know this was my lucky day of the month.  2) I still harbor some resentment from years of sexual abandonment and 3) I can't get it out of my head that the only reason she wants sex is to placate me.

Yes, we should probably go to therapy.  Right now, all I can focus on is the visual of you [b]half naked with a sun kissed body [/b] :wink: [/quote]

All the sex-starved men are loving this...[/quote]

+1. I can't even remember the last time my DW was on the couch, boobs out, legs rubbing up against me... *sigh*[/quote]

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