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[quote=Anonymous]Stop being your husbands mother? Do what you feel is reasonable around the house and let the rest go. When the shopping doesn't get find and the dinner doesn't get made he'll probably come up with some strategies all on his own. When people get tired of eating cereal and milk for all meals perhaps a light bulb will go on. If not - enjoy that cereal. Be the fun mom and watch cartoons with everyone else. I have a teen who leaves her clothes piled in her bathroom instead of putting them in the laundry pile. Guess what? None of her stuff gets washed until it gets out into the laundry by her. And no, I don't nag or whine at her. If she leaves her crap around the house I might scoop it up and put it out of sight (in her closet & close the door) but I'm not putting it away for her. If there were toys and crap all over the house and I was really peeved I'd put it in plastic garbage bags & shut it up in the attic.[/quote]
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