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[quote=Anonymous]He's using anxiety as a coping mechanism. If he won't see a therapist for it then you should say you are following his lead and are not going to take it seriously. Stop having sex. Seriously. I know I'll get flamed for this, but say you're worried about him needing to go to the ER again. If he says he's fine at night - still don't have sex - have a conversation the next day about how to restructure things around the house. Until that happens- stop having sex! Also, at this point - after 10 years - he's not unemployed - that implies a transitional period - he's a SAHD! A stay at home parent to an older child should handle most of the household responsibility. Good luck![/quote]
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