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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's easy to recognize those who exhibit traits of "gayness."

But I'm also constantly surprised at finding out who actually is gay. There seems to be quite a few "normal" people that are homosexuals (before anyone gets upset at my terminology I'm trying to keep the language as simple and brief as possible).

My question for those who claim to have an excellent gaydar, how can you tell if another person is gay after a few minutes? What are the clues? I'm not talking about flamboyant or butch behavior but people who dress, talk, walk "normally." What "gives them away" in your eyes? 
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Gay bar culture has an accent.  You can hear it.

Gay guys and lesbians both have clothing fashions that can be a little different than straight people.

They go to certain vacation spots. They come in on the Monday after Pride weekend with a sunburn and a hangover.

They check out the male RN or doctor, but not the female one. (Or vice versa).  They live with a "room-mate" of the same sex and don't date.

They have stereotypical hobbies.

It mostly doesn't matter anymore, though. Most people don't stay in the closet for long. [/quote]

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