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[quote=PaigeKeller][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pre-empting the advice to get a better job: (1) big law wants nothing to do with someone who has been doing landlord-tenant and domestic violence work for close to 20 years; (2) neither are the Feds; and (3) I love my job and serving my community more than I love the idea of leaving my marriage to find an imaginary soul mate I don't want at age 46 with a child to care for and child support to pay. Imagine that.

I'm a decent looking 46. I work out and I am a good weight and haven't aged badly considering.

But if I came on here as a divorced 46-year-old mother with no money and a school-aged child and asked what my chances are for finding a nice spouse, I'd be told (accurately) to expect a bald guy 5-10 years my senior with kids, an ex, and a modest income.

Who the hell would uproot their child's life for that? My spouse isn't mean. He's kind to our child and he does the dishes and cleans the gutters. We aren't fighting.  We have friends in common who like us both.

He also doesn't want to break up.

What if I just told him to go get sex elsewhere? 
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Yes.  That is probably the best solution for you.  You have no intention/way of fixing this problem and you're willing to stay with a man who repulses you sexually for the sake of friendship and child care.  So that's great that you're willing to let him get sex elsewhere.  Because you're right, there is no fix to this problem...[/quote]

I agree with this.[/quote]

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