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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We go on date nights regularly and have had many weekends off and away together. It's not a lack of time or kid-related exhaustion. He forced me to turn off my sex drive. We had it out then. I managed to come back once when he wanted it and fake it the few times he hasn't been sick or depressed in the intervening years. My life with him has been pretty disappointing, and without sex as the glue to hold us together, I am my own support system.

Of course I resent it. I stick around and do my share. We're friends. He's nice. I just can't sleep with him. I don't even like undressing around him. [/quote]

Then get divorced and co-parent.  You say you can't afford it?  That's a load of BS.  You're cutting off what you have said is a very important part of you (sex) to stay with a man who has severe issues because of money?  Put on your big girl panties, find a cheaper place to live and make the life you want.  [/quote]
Reading comprehension.  My husband is unemployed. Not only can't he afford a place to live, I would likely owe spousal support for two years if I left him and child support until our incomes equalized.

There is not a dollar to spare and no, I don't want to see him destitute or have my child spent live in two wretched apartments. She had nothing to do with this. I'm fine without sex. Why should I and my child go through extreme hardship for something I don't even want? [/quote]

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