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[quote=CallMeMaybe][quote=Anonymous][quote=CallMeMaybe]My Ex was a terrible communicator, was never ever there for me in stressful times (a meeting in Boston was more important than being with me during a DC surgery), he went out all the time while I stayed home with our 2 year old daughter and worked full time.  He slowly became the dirtbag that never grew up. Being a parent means being there.

I slowly hated living a lie and moved out. Big props to be. My freedom is everything to me.

Meanwhile after 6 months of separation he found a much younger woman and now they are engaged. And I'm watching history repeat itself. He can use his control tactics on her. [/quote]

Well PP how silly you must have been to have married such a terrible person in the first place!  Not only that--you procreated with him!!!

It MUST BE ALL HIS FAULT.  (Cause he's a meany.)[/quote]

You are funny. Nope, I didn't procreate. At the time I couldn't due to an unknown medical reason, we adopted. We adopted and he pushed for it. And I wouldn't have it any other way. I was only 24 when I met him, and now I know that narrassium grows with age. He wanted me to raise my kid essentailly by myself, work full time why he traveled for work, did 100 mile bike rides on the weekends and then went out to bars at night. I remember my daughter staring into space saying "Where's daddy?" That was the magic question. No, I don't want to fuck a man that can't communicate and abuses me, and tells me its all my fault. There is nothing sexy about that.  I hope his new fiance puts out for him.

I clearly remember being in the throws of shit, holding it together for the look of status, him being horribly mean and still think its ok to touch my ass. No, see, I literally was only a body to this person. No thanks.

My story is tried and true. And I'll always say how it is. Funny enough, he still somehow thinks I want him, which is weird. I'm more just pissed he didn't even try. His foot was already out the door. He has acknowledged that she should've tried harder but it is what it is. We are very very different people. He's a man of status and how things look to the world. I am much more about love and respect and while I'm hot, I'm not going to be with a person that only sees that.  Freedom is my superpower baby!  The shackles of "should be" are gone forever. Cheers to me for having the balls to walk away. The hardest thing I've ever done in my life. No doubt.[/quote]

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