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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I disagree with other PPs.

First, your friend's husband didn't say this to you, nor did he say it in your present.  What you have is hearsay.  Even if it is from a trusted source (your husband), it's still just hearsay.

Second, your husband didn't catch the guy having an affair.  Your husband actually doesn't know for sure the guy is having an affair.  He could just be talking.  Maybe he wants other people to think he's having an affair to think he's some uber attractive guy.

Third, this involves your husband's workplace.  So it adds another level of complication.

Why does your husband want you to stop being friends with her?  Is there a reason why your husband doesn't want to tell the woman?

Something is amiss with the way your husband told you.  In fact, your husband put you in a bad position.  He told you something about your friend (knowing you'd want to tell her), but then he said you shouldn't be friends with her.

He's leaving something out.  There's something he's not telling you about the woman you are friends with or about her situation or about his coworker.

Before you go blabbing at the mouth about something you have heard secondhand, you really need to talk to your husband and get more information.

The PP who says your husband is cheating may be wrong about your husband cheating, but she is right to point out something doesn't smell right about his reaction to all of this.

If he didn't want you to tell your friend, he should not have told you.  To tell you and then ask that you stop being friends with her is very strange.

You need to have a conversation with your husband about this.

You also need to tread carefully.  The guy is a lawyer.  If you tell her something that isn't true and that actually isn't exactly what the guy actually said (i.e., your husband got the statements wrong), then it could lead to trouble.[/quote]

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