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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I understand your point, however you have to keep in mind that often people get married young and people do change over time. You of course hope that the both of you grow together, but sometimes that is just not the way life is. People change and people grow apart and often the person they fell in love with is no longer recognizable. I know that I am not the same person I was when I got married. I happen to think I have changed for the better, but my DH would like to think otherwise. I am no longer the submissive, shy, do what you say girl and my DH feels as though he has lost "control". He is also not the person I married either. He has turned into a mean SOB and I am sure it is due to his resentment. We are in therapy and have been for quite some time and honestly I am not sure there is much left to save. We both really don't like the people we have become. I am glad that things worked out for you and your husband, but quite frankly I think life is entirely way too short to live with someone that makes you miserable for 5, 10, 15+ years, especially if after that time period things DO NOT improve, or even get worse. You also make reference to the children and you can be assured that in marriages where there is no love left, it can be felt by the children. The tension is unbelievable. I am not a person that believes a family should remain in misery, where the two parents have lost respect and love for one another. If you don't think that causes damage to children, I think you are living in another universe. None of us should judge when a person has tried enough or has not in their marriage. Everyone has a breaking point, clearly you have a higher thresh hold than some....   [/quote]

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