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Reply to "I'm Just Back From A Date & I Feel Horrible."
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[quote=Anonymous]I do think this is about you. Ask yourself the hard question about your internal standards. Are they a way of avoiding real intimacy? Maybe this guy wasn't a fit- but is the fit you are seeking based on data points or a true connection? If it's a relief that he had the superman shirt on, so you had an excuse to avoid the truth- that no one ever feels "right". At 32, you honestly have reached a place where the single, psychologically healthy men your own age are already few and far between. Most of them got married or met someone in their late 20's. I don't need to tell you this, you can just count up all of the bridesmaid dresses in your closet. If you want to have a baby at some point, without having having to be a stepmother, get into therapy soon. [/quote]
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