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[quote=Anonymous]I totally get this and have been in really similar situations.  You feel badly because you don't like him even though you "think" you should.  And like others have posted, the shirt/glasses type stuff are pretty small in terms of what matters.

But, the thing is, you can't help it.  You feel how you feel.  Try to give yourself a break because you gave him a number of chances and you just weren't really feeling him.  You were then honest with him and let him go. Yes, you can try to be more open minded in the future but I would caution you to not force yourself to overlook things if they are important to you, or if you just can't get over them. Sometimes that can work if someone is a really terrific match, but other times those small things become bigger things and you don't want to find yourself in a longer relationship/marriage with someone who has small quirks that drive you crazy. That can build up into tension/resentment/animosity that can take a hard toll.

Good luck![/quote]

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