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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here,

Wow thank you guys for all the advice and so quickly. What makes this sticky is I have had the hard convo with him, Monday night actually and the fire storm is on which is why I am here. He really is making it all about him. Both him and the OW swear up and down that they didn't have sex before their respective divorces but i know this is not true which adds to the situation. They literally divorced their spouses the same month.

I will answer some more of the pp thoughts and questions later today...has anyone been in this situation and had it work out well? Either by inviting everyone or just drawing the line in the sand like some mentioned?

I feel like if I cave I will not enjoy my wedding and hurt my mother and if I stick to my guns and he shows he will have a black cloud over him. If I stick to my guns and he doesn't show it would be very hurtful as well...[/quote]

OP, I posted earlier about my dad skipping my sister's wedding.

You need to accept that this will be a continuous series of really destructful negative events from your father and the other woman.

Including him will not make things better or rosier. It will just postpone the next time and the next time and the next time.

Him choosing not to include himself in your wedding is not going to be the only hurtful thing he will do in a string of hurtful things.

No matter what you do your father and this woman will continue to hurt you and your family with their selfishness, over and over again.

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