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[quote=Anonymous]OP, why are you involving yourself in this. You are the "in-law." This is MIL's house. This is MIL's own daughter and her family. You are one step removed from this drama, so don't insert yourself. Bring the dishes you told your hostess, MIL, that you were going to bring. (And by the way, I certainly hope your husband is cooking, too. What with this being his family and all.) Then, after dinner, go relax. Literally just go sit down on a couch with a magazine. If MIL wants to clean up by herself rather than grow up and ask her own daughter for help, let her knock herself out. If SIL wants to sit around piles of dirty dishes and be rude and not lift a finger to help, whatever. IT'S NOT YOUR HOUSE; IT'S NOT YOUR DIRECT FAMILY; IT'S NOT YOUR PROBLEM. Help by bringing some yummy food, enjoy it, then take a seat. DH can get involved if he wants to.[/quote]
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