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[quote=Anonymous]Op again. Thank you for the book recommendations, I'll check those out.

Didn't mean to have a child with him, she was an oops. We both adore her, and he is a fantastic father. It sucks, because I want her to grow up seeing her daddy every day. But I also know we are modeling a dysfunctional relationship for her and I don't want her learning it's okay to treat your spouse poorly.

He was like this before marriage and I did split up with him because of it. He was extremely distraught, so I gave counseling a shot and our relationship improved quite a bit. Things were pretty good for awhile, then started slipping again after we got married. This is why I think he needs that fear that I could leave to keep himself in check.

We've had sex once since our daughter was born. I still have an awesome sex drive, but it's no fun when I'm trying to make a move and he starts questioning why I didn't get some bullsht task done that day, or if I did do it, explain why it's not up to his standards. Way to kill the mood. Or afterwards he'll immediately get up, go to the bathroom, get upset I didn't close the shower curtain. Then I get a long lecture on how he has asked me numerours times to close it, I need to close it because that's the best way, and yes maybe I do close it 90% of the time but I'm still being lazy and not thinking things through. Suck to let myself be vulnerable enough for sex and then get immediately attacked while I still have my guard down.

I know a lot of it comes from anxiety. I've seen instances where if he can't act out his OCD, even on small things, he starts sweating profusely. He is also very hard on himself; if he makes any kind of mistake he will beat himself up over it.

6:21 I'm going to assume that was a troll post. My daughter is way too young to know what "stop" means, especially in regards to a natural infant behavior like kicking legs.

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