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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP your post makes me feel like you engineered the whole thing to garner sympathy. It feels like you are using DCUMS just to make yourself look better.[/quote]

Truthfully I'm inclined to agree with this. Nice people don't need to tout their nice-ness. And if you're the first to admit imperfections and wrongdoing, where are they in your story of your relationship? Your ex does not sound like a gem, but your post is also extremely one-sided, and I'm inclined to believe these very slanted stories and then asking "am I a terrible person?" as a form of manipulation.

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I really wish that you and the PP you're agreeing with would sign your name, so that the rest of us could stop thinking of you as a good person if we happen to know you.

This is a person who came here essentially to say, my ex did all these things and I feel like he is wrong and abusive, but I've been in the relationship so long that it's hard to have perspective. You, on the other hand, read a post that (if even half of these things are correctly reported) was written by a woman who was in a relationship for eight years with someone who belittled her and used her dependence and insecurity to control her, and your decision was to essentially tell her exactly the same things her ex did.

I hope you're ashamed of yourselves.[/quote]

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