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[quote=Anonymous]Yes. It is the classic definition of emotional abuse. Are you a terrible person... IDK, do you do mean things to others (besides your boyfriend)... maybe, maybe you drink too much/gossip/criticize others... I don't know.... but that does not mean you deserve to be emotionally abused. Often, those that are "not good people" think they need to settle for abusers. Often, those with anxieties/depression/fat/under-educated/etc think they are damaged goods and that they have to date an abuser because who else is going to want them. (I am sure your abusive boyfriend has driven that message deep into your psyche) That is a problem. He abuses you, that is not okay. Am I promising you that if you leave, get therapy and become a "better person" that you will find a better mate. No. I am not, you need to be comfortable being along, because those that can't be comfortable with themselves will never find somebody that is comfortable with them. [/quote]
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