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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to start delegating some of the responsibility to your husband. Right now, you are enabling him by being a martyr of doing most of the stuffs. But, once you delegate, do not micromanage. I know it's hard, because somehow mom is wired that way, but you can start now before resentment get worse.[/quote] yeah, so, I have delegated the only things he can actually be counted upon to do. the other things, he literally won't do. e.g., will refuse to stay home with sick kid no matter how sick (see above me being chastised for being "selfish" for not being able to take sick leave that particular day). financial matters, no way can he be responsible for them. household, it would look like crazy people lived there (so I pay out of my greater earnings for weekly cleaners). on a day to day basis it's easier for me to do everything. until I boil over like yesterday AM. [/quote]
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