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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I really appreciate what you're saying. My STBX is flying home for his sister's very casual wedding reception. I think everyone is going to act like me and my two (under 5) kids don't exist, and pretend he didnt have an affair and walk out on us. I was so wonderful to this family. It makes me sick.[/quote]

I hope the situation goes more smoothly than you expect. I hope it isn't a bad experience. I would dread it, too.

There is a happy medium between pretending you and your kids don't exist on the one hand, and making this wedding celebration about something other than the couple you are gathering for: it can be, in theory, being warm and kind to you along with not being chillw ith your STBX. There are times and places for those conversations -- confrontations, questions, clarifications of support -- and the wedding of someone not involved in your marriage is not one of them.

Wishing you some peace and a short stint on that particular carnival ride.[/quote]

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