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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your brother is an ass. If you want a mate whose looks (or personality/interests/life goals, etc. for that matter) are guaranteed never to change, get a blow up doll.[/quote]

Come on, how would you like if you married someone thin and they gained a hundred pounds. It's a huge difference.
It's not like gaining 30 lbs. [/quote]

I'm the poster you're responding to. Weight is an important component of sexual attraction for some people, but not for everyone. My DH and I have both gained significant weight since we met and our sex life has never been better.

But theoretically, if my spouse gained a bunch of weight and I no longer found myself attracted to him, I would consider my options. I could try to help him lose the weight. I could stay in a sexless marriage. I could divorce him. Whatever, that's between the two of us. But if I complained about "false advertising," implying that he lied and tricked me into marriage, I would be an asshole. Nobody gains 100 pounds on purpose to spite their spouse. Human bodies are faulty and unpredictable and shit happens. Blame, shame, and recriminations are not the kind way to respond, especially when you're supposed to love someone for more than their looks.[/quote]

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