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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, how long ago did you find out?[/quote] About four months ago. So it's been a little while. [/quote] Four months is not very long in matters such as this. For most they have to make forgiveness a daily ritual and work on focusing on something beyond the past. Because the images that come to you are as they are it is an indication you are still holding onto the pain. You can choose, and it is a choice, to release that. Once you have chosen to let it go, and doing so one time won't be enough, there will be other things you will need to do but none of those will really help you without first making that choice. One thing further. If you love your wife and you love your family as it is, whole and in one household, begin to focus on that each day. Start a gratitude journal where your wife and family is concerned. Make it very personal and include how she, and they, make you feel.[/quote]
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