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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are the different leagues in dating?

What league do you fall under?

What about your spouse?

Are you evenly matched? Why or why not?

Has anyone here dated/married "out" of their league?[/quote]

OP, here's the thing:  generally, long term couples balance each other out. If you think one member of the couple is so (fill in the asset here - "good looking" "smart" rich", whatever.....), then you better also know that for every obvious asset, the other member has an invisible asset.  That is how long term couples survive.  There is always leverage of some sort.  Example:  If you are flirting with him because you think it is his money - you might be sorely surprised to find out the money is all hers.  Enjoy!

There is always an intangible offered that makes the couple more equal, in the end.  There is always leverage, in every long term couple I know.

What "league" are you actually concerned about, OP?  Long term couples are about much, much more than mutual physical attraction. How old are you? [/quote]

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