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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For me, the peace will come knowing I have tried ever single thing.  I am almost at the end of road.  We tried.  We did the best we could.  I've come to peace because I have had a lot of time to think while still trying.  Things like - well if I don't get pregnant I can have wine/travel/do those really hard workouts I love/eat whatever . . . I'll also get my money back from shared risk and get a new kitchen.  Retire early.

I'll always feel like I missed out, but I've come to peace knowing there are pros and knowing that I've tried and that it is time to move on.  I didn't want any regrets.

Maybe that is why so many say to try IVF?  I don't know your age, but maybe you don't have to make a permanent decision.

I am 42.  Donor egg has also failed and we've been trying for years!  It is time for me to move on.  [/quote]

+100. That was me. I need to know that I have tried IVF at least once to feel at peace. I want to look back with no regrets.

OP not sure why you won't explain your reasons for not doing IVF since this is all anonymous. On this board, you may find someone who is at peace with not having kids but that's probably someone who has done IVF twice or something. [/quote]

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