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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I guess my point is that they are truly rude and self centered on so many occasions, and I cannot tell you how many times my husband has told me "I know, but can you just be patient, it's my family". No, no I can't always be patient. [/quote]

So here's the thing, OP. Clearly you hate his brother and, from the way you talk, just about everything he does. You want your husband to take your side. Your husband says that he understands that they can be difficult and asks you to have patience. You say no, absolutely not. Frankly, most families come with baggage and there has to be give and take. And you come across as not willing to budge. In your next post you ask about separating and that might be where you are heading if you continue to be unyielding.

FWIW, my family (and I won't say whether it's in laws or my side) can be like your BIL. My reaction to your original post was "only 9 hours ". My family has dropped off kids for days at a time so I understand the imposition. But you have to decide what matters most - staying married and in a good relationship or periodic inconveniences. [/quote]

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