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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex husband was never affectionate and would pull away from non-sexual affection. I grew to resent him so badly for it. We didn't have kids so I didn't even want to bother with counseling. It was just like, "you won't kiss me or put your arm around me, but you want me to have sex?" Um, no.

My current fiancé is really affectionate. Kisses hello and goodbye, hugs in the kitchen, holding hands walking around places. It's great. [/quote]

I just will never understand women who actually marry a man and then pretend they were unaware of what his manner of expressing affection was like prior to marriage.

Perhaps your ex didn't want to engage in affection with you that never would lead to sex.  In any event you knew what he was like when you married him.   Yet it's all your exes fault.

Now your new guy hugs and kisses you and hold your hand and you seem to think this.means he doesn't really want to have sex with you.  That's because he's courting you you moron.   Your fiancee actually wants to have sex with you every single time.   Cause he's a man.   If you get married and you pull this crap a second time don't be surprised if he loses his patience with your games just like the first one did.[/quote]

Wrong. My ex husband was affectionate before we were married. It died off over the course of the marriage (we got married after less than two years of dating). He became really lazy altogether--maybe he just thought since we were married he didn't have to "try" anymore. My fiancé now, we have been together over two years. I purposely want to wait longer to get married (wedding is not planned until 2018). He's been exactly the same since day 1. You don't have all the facts before commenting, with all due respect. [/quote]

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