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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think they are both doing a great job raising their child... They just are not right for each other and unfortunately they can't work it out. You can't force someone to change and the father is showing a lot of [b]warning signs that are just really toxic to the mother[/b]. Otherwise he's a great dad, but not a very good boyfriend. (This is OP). [/quote] As the child ages, these things will creep into the entire family (mom, dad, child) dynamic and influence relationships. The mother needs to get out of that house. They need to legally arrange financials, custody, visitations, etc. as a formality [i]while their relationship is still good[/i]; do it while still good so that they feel things are to their mutual benefit (now and future) and to the benefit of their child. Too many of these things go sour and mom is left in the lurch. I don't know anyone who has had a situation like this stay positive in the long run. I wish I did. What do things look like financially for this couple? Both gainfully employed and responsible? Are they a mature 30 years old or still babies at heart? [/quote]
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