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[quote=Anonymous]OP, those examples are helpful. In both of them, your DH is saying he "didn't mean to" do something that is entirely within his control: using a certain word and cooking dinner. Does he mean using the word was an accident and he forgot to cook dinner? Or, that he decided to do those things but doesn't think he should be blamed bc he didn't intend to hurt your feelings? If it's the former, wtf. He said he'd do something and he didn't do it. If the latter, maybe it would help to take the emotions out of it (notwithstanding what you're working on in therapy). The issue is he said he would do something and he didn't. In either case, he needs to take responsibility for his actions (or words) since he is a grownup. [/quote]
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