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Reply to "Wife's birthday coming up -- if her ex-affair partner contacts her I am going to lose it"
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[quote=Anonymous]If you want her to tell you IF the AP contacts her, you need to not "lose it" if he does. She can't control if he reaches out or not. So punishing her for him reaching out isn't ok. But if she doesn't trust that you won't "lose it" upon finding out, then she has a reason to hide it from you. Be a safe place for her to tell you unpleasant things. Then decide if you want to live with those unpleasant things or not. But no need to "lose it". [/quote]
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