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Reply to "Wife's birthday coming up -- if her ex-affair partner contacts her I am going to lose it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your wife has to be transparent about her affair partner, disclosing every time he may try to make contact with her and a clear explanation of how she handles it. It's a basic part of rebuilding trust and your healing. You have every right to tell her this, and it should be a condition of your remaining with her. If she won't do it, you won't be able to move forward and you're wasting your time.[/quote] PP here from 10:35. Just to add. If/when she does the right thing and is forthright and honest with you about any attempts he's made to contact her, you need to be cool about it and not blow a gasket. If you want her to continue to be honest with you, it wouldn't be good to put her in constant fear that when she does the right thing, she's going to be yelled at, guilt tripped, etc. she screwed up in the past, yeah, big time. But please don't punish her for doing the right thing NOW. Just my thoughts. [/quote]
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