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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Not a big deal at all. I google exes here and there and have for years. Why, because some I want to see how their lives have ended up. A few that dumped me I was hoping they were kind of miserable, lol. One is still a loser and living alone with his cat as I predicted. I also Google my spouses exes and have gotten quite a laugh. Seriously people are dumb that post their real names on FB etc. It's scary how much you can find out, but most I know do the same. Public info. people.

When you put all this stuff on the internet the search engines will bring it all right to you. I was able to see my exes divorce which was a good laugh. He and his wife fought over the cat and the judge gave my ex visitation while she got custody!!!

OP don't say anything, not a big deal at all.[/quote]

OP here Do you google your exes every week? every few days?

I know its not a crime--but its not the googling itself. We all do it. Its the frequency. Somewhere between weekly and daily, for at least a year (as far back as the history goes), perhaps the entire length of our marriage for all I know. Perhaps since we had kids.  This isn't the occasional "I wonder what ever happened to..." its something else, that seems, well, unhealthy. To me anyway. Seems like a lot of energy and emotion that could/should be directed elsewhere. [/quote]

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