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[quote=Anonymous]We had a "surprise", although it wasn't years after we thought we were done. We'd planned for a 4 year gap between our 2nd and 3rd, and instead ended up with less than 2 years. I was not happy at first. I think there are people who roll with the punches easily, and there are those of us for whom having our plans or expectations upended is very difficult. Our youngest just turned 1, and she's awesome. But while i was in love with her from the get-go, it took awhile to shake off my irritation at having my plans altered. Try not to beat yourself up. It took some therapy (needed for other reasons as well), but I don't beat myself up for being someone who doesn't like when things happen outside of my control or plans. [/quote]
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