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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Yeah, I know people that "did IVF" and got pregnant on their own.

Not people that did 10 rounds of IVF.
Not people that went to the best clinics in the country and were told, I'm so very sorry, but you will never have biological children without IVF.

I understand that you can stand objectively outside of our situation and say, yes, of course anything is possible.  But, you don't have the years and years and years of scar tissue of sobbing yourself to sleep because you can't get pregnant.

Please abstain from the judgement about how it's our fault we are pregnant and tell me about choices that were made and how you feel about the decision years after.[/quote]

Fellow infertile who made it to the other side so to speak. We have severe MFI and I have immune issues and will never be pregnant without IVF. That said we had our first successful treatment when my DH was 40/41. We will go back for an FET when he is 42 in hopes of having a sibling. I know it must be a mind job to be pregnant naturally after all the craziness of IF. I have often wondered what it was like. So stop for a moment and laugh that you have a feritle person problem. Because they have stuff like this happen all the time.    As for age, I stopped caring how old we will be when the kids are in college. Remember 60 now isn't what it was 20 years ago, especially with good health care and an education/good job. I would see a therapist to talk through this. You may still have some PTSD from infertility, which is normal given everything you go through to have a child and then bam, you are pregnant. It is a mind job. Wishing you the best![/quote]

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